You deserve to be safe

If you're worried about safety in a relationship, you made the right decision coming here.

Concerned about how your partner or ex treats you?

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Understanding unsafe relationships

Find out about some common signs that your partner's behaviour may be unsafe, and how to get help for you and your kids.

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Support available

Practical steps for safety planning if you’re experiencing family violence, and a list of New Zealand’s main family violence refuges and other support services.

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Supporting someone

Advice on ways to hold a safe discussion if you think that someone you know is experiencing family violence. Professional support is there for them when they’re ready.

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