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Understand unsafe relationships

Understand

unsafe relationships

Is your partner making you feel unsafe?

Some common signs that a partner’s behaviour is unsafe and may be dangerous. A relationship may be unsafe, even without abuse or violence.

What is family violence?

Explore what family violence is and learn about the types of abuse.

Worried about friends or whānau?

Family violence can be physical and emotional. Your understanding and support matters.

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Concerned about how your partner or ex treats you?

Breaking Silence

Video Series

Breaking Silence
Get support for you or someone else

Get support

for you or someone else

Support for you

Practical steps to safety and services that can help you.

Support for friends or whānau

How to support someone and look after yourself.

I'm worried about my kids

Ways to keep you and your kids safe through legal protections and support services.

Service Finder

Need help but aren't sure where to find it?

Bright Sky app

Bright Sky app details
Communities information and support

Communities

Takatāpui and rainbow people

Family violence information for Takatāpui and rainbow people, and how to safely access support.

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Disabled people

Family violence information for disabled people, and how to safely access support.

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Languages and accessible information

Languages

Translated information

Family violence information translated into 10 languages

NZ Relay Services

Te Kupenga Whakaoti Mahi Patunga/National Network of Family Violence Services.

These services assist people who are Deaf, hard of hearing, speech-impaired and deafblind to communicate with others over the phone.