Mike
Mike came with his partner after his friends had challenged the way he treated his partner. The couple agreed a good first step would be for the man to be seen individually so he could deal with his violent behaviour. He talked about the impact of the ads. He was struck by Vic talking about his tattoos and the impact of intergenerational messages. He had grown up with a father heavily tattooed with hate messages. Seeing Vic made him want to revisit the impact of those messages on him and his family.
Kia Ora my name is Patumoana Jeremy Eparaima known to some as Patu and some as Jeremy so I answer to both....
I remember meeting Mum’s partner in 2004, let’s call him *Beau. Everything started off sweet for the first year, until he got into the drinking and going to the pub. Mum and Beau fought all the time over everything and anything....
Recently I had one of the best days I have ever had since joining the Police....
I am a midwife, and one story remains with me even though it's been years since it happened....
I was about five years old when my 13 year old half brother began to sexually abuse me and my older sister. I was nine and he had finished school and moved out of home before she was able to tell my parents what had been happening....
As a young Samoan boy I was always beaten and verbally abused and that’s where I think it started. Being abused and seeing it around me, I grew up thinking that was how you were supposed to do things....
“I am not one to ask or say too much, instead I will wait for others to see I want to talk or start to talk softly until some one notices that I want to talk....
When Ray Bishop landed a role in the film ‘Once Were Warriors’ he was acting out his own family’s story....